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I’m Walking on Eggshells — My Autistic Child Can Explode at Any Moment

 You’re always watching. Always adjusting. Always thinking ahead. Always trying to prevent the next meltdown. Because it feels like… πŸ‘‰ Anything could set it off. The wrong word A small change A simple request And suddenly— πŸ‘‰ Everything explodes. So now you live like this: πŸ‘‰ Careful πŸ‘‰ Tense πŸ‘‰ On edge Like you’re walking on eggshells all day. ⚠️ THE TRUTH (THIS WILL SHIFT HOW YOU SEE IT) Your child is not unpredictable. It just feels that way. πŸ‘‰ What you’re actually seeing is a nervous system that is constantly close to fight or flight Which means: Less buffer before meltdown Faster reactions Bigger responses to smaller triggers 🧠 WHAT’S REALLY HAPPENING When a child stays near fight or flight: Stress builds faster Recovery is incomplete Triggers hit harder So what looks like: πŸ‘‰ “random explosions” Is actually: πŸ‘‰ constant internal pressure finally releasing If you feel like you have to manage every moment just to keep things calm… you’re not imagining it. πŸ‘‰ Inside my melt...